Im with the most wonderful man, he has very few flaws, but one hits the nail everytime, any suggestions?

He is the youngest of 3 siblings, and his mom does almost everything for him. we plan to get our own place next July, (right now i live with him and his parents) i have only one main concern, he is used to being fed, cleaned up after, clothes washed, they take care of his cat (which he plans to bring with him when we leave) anytime i ask him to do anything he claims he has no time, or he is too busy. (dont get me wrong he is busy... but not that busy) im worried that when we get our own place the things i do for him now, will carry on and grow as he wont have his mom to make his lunches, iron his clothes, cook his meals, do his laundry... and ... clean up after his cat who frequently pukes up hairballs around the house. iv tried asking him nicely to help. but it always ends in a fight.. and so i give in and do it for him. I need advice,,, help?Im with the most wonderful man, he has very few flaws, but one hits the nail everytime, any suggestions?
Help? You need someone else. Your stuck in that love can conquer all mentality thinking you have a hope or a prayer here, making you think something can change in him if he just what? Gets out from his evil mommy? WHEN SHE DIES!!! Are you take the role over. Chances are pretty strong that your in for some wonderful heck as you realize that your actually the most capable person in your butch. Trust I've met plenty of momma's boyz, always quite around other boyz, by always have some ballz around women. Their use to controlling them, and apparently your use to being controlled. So a matter of know your role, shut your mouth, or live your life for a great purpose then this guys new momma..... do yourself a favor, on your way out, look his mom in the eye, and repeat the lesson your learning to day: Love is never enough, its HOW you love, and your love is doing nothing more then turning your son into a helpless jerk that some poor lady thats so down on herself will risk wasting her life on because you taught him all the cool ways to manipulate females, but not me sister, PEACE!